I have known about DMT for maybe two years now and at first I wanted to try it so much. As life goes on I gave up on it 'til it finds me. I'm not even sure why but last night just before I went to bed I googled it on my phone. I always new I could extract it but now know I have the Phalaris Arundinacea growing in my backyard, go figure huh?
Has it found me?

I think that if you came all the way to the Nexus and checked out the back yard for phalaris... that the answer is yes.

Embrace the individual choice. We cannot decide your course of action. Of course, one can never be truly prepared for the DMT headspace.

Do the research, ruminate on your ultimate intent, and cultivate humility. Mindset and setting should be the locus of your consideration, as with any psychedelic. Check out the Health & Safety component of the wiki

I would encourage you take some time to sit in silence with these questions. You know what the answer is, one way or another. Go to nature. Listen to the wind in the trees and the water running over rocks. The answer will come.

as long as your fairly confident in your ability to handle powerful mind manifestations.
I hear that it is much more intense than your average fungus.