Not sure if this belongs here, but if it doesn't feel free to move this elsewhere. I just wanted to explain my situation aloud and see if it is actually unreasonable for me to even consider this.

In a couple weeks I will be going camping in a decently famous provincial park. I will be going with my girlfriend, and we have chosen to go on the weekend situated around the summer solstice in order to enjoy the longest day of the year. She and I are both very experienced with serotonin based psychedelics. However, she has absolutely zero experience with DMT, barring me telling her about it and so on. We plan on doing at least LSD, but would it be unreasonable for me to ask her if I can do some DMT?

On the one hand, she has been extremely accepting of all of my drug use, and she would probably make an understanding trip sitter. She is also aware that I have DMT in my possession. However, on the other hand I fear that she will fear for me, as she has never actually experienced DMT, or even seen what it can do.

I will definitely be talking to her about this before we leave.

Note: I would never ask her if she would want to do some, because I feel that she has to be genuinely interested in it if she wanted to attempt to do it. However, I do not feel that she is quite psychologically ready to try it just yet.

In my opinion, I think it would be best to wait until you have time to yourself. To me, it seems somewhat exclusive to bring it, smoke it, and not offer her any.

But that's just my opinion. It's difficult to say without being in your shoes.

Totally see where your coming from with your opinion. I wasn't trying to be exclusive, or making myself to be any better than her. I just want her to ask me if she becomes interested in trying it. I feel that if I where to ask her to try it, she will feel pressured to try it, and that is something I want to avoid.

Thanks for your share of opinion though!

Hmm does sound tough. It would be nice on the Solstice to do it and yet you don't want to pressure her by bringing it up. And if she did want to do it you feel she's not ready anyway. I'd say IMO to just wait. I eased my way into taking it, the first 5 or 6 times I never blasted off on purpose. Some people say its a waste and though that may be true for some IMO it can be a way of simply being gentile with your mind. Maybe you could just talk to her about it and let her know that its something you two can share some time and not even bring it up at the park. That's what I'd do anyway.

IMO if shes experienced with other psyches and seems even generally interested just ask her if she want to try it, explain what it can and has done especially to you, and just let her decide I always tell people it can be extremely life changing and before they even take their hit I ask them one last time if they are positive. If shes ok with you doing it alone, then do it, if she wants to try let her try. Maybe she really wants to try and just doesn't want to ASK YOU FOR SOME.

Its good to be sure but that would put me in a stressed out head to be asked that right before I took a hit if I never tried dmt.

I would take the DMT and I would vape the DMT, if my misses asked for some I would give it to her. I'm not sure how long you have been with your girlfriend but if its any decent amount of time it seems strange that she would feel pressured to do anything, I would think something was wrong if my misses felt pressure from me to do anything.

Your not doing anything wrong and your not forcing her to do it. If she wants to try it explain what's going to happen then crack on.

If she like psychedelics I would guess she would probably love it.

Good point, lol I will keep this in mind for future reference.

We've been together for 6 years now off and on, or 4 years solidly. She does enjoy psychedelics, but she seems to be weary of anything that would put your mind in another realm.

After reading through all of these replies, the major thing seems to be communication. I think I might try easing her into it by showing her the movie DMT: The Spirit Molecule. Does this sound like a bad idea? I've seen it twice now, and admittedly a few of the people interviewed on there have some pretty far out ideas, which could come off on the border side of crazy.

If I where to do it, I think that I would be using changa. I don't have any experience with changa so far, but it doesn't seem extremely difficult to make. I have a bit of experience vaping DMT, so I know what kind of effects to expect. I just feel that changa would be a lot more approachable for her than say using some type of vaporizer. However, since I have never done changa, does anybody think that this could be a bad idea? For the herbs, I was considering using passion flower.

I think Changa is always the way to go . low doses of Changa wont put her in another realm but they will make the LSD visuals epic, I have only had the privilidge of LSDMT a couple of times, the first time it just ramped up the LSD visuals by several notchs but I never left the room, it was just like turbo charging the LSD experience, if she likes acid I think she will love small hits of Changa. But remember to keep them small or

If she express' an interest I wouldn't go with the spirit molecule, I would send her here, I think we can provide more knowledge than the spirit molecule can and she can interact with us in a way that isn't achievable with a film.

If she does or if she doesn't, I hope you both have a lovely day.

I think your doing right by not pushing it, she knows its there and im shure she would ask or possibly say yes if passively asked bofore or after she witness you doing it.

Recently I have been in somewhat the same situation, I recently showed my cousin a few grams of fluff, before that moment he knew nothing of dmt, he seemed interested with many questions which I answered as honestly as I could, I kinda scared him a bit but yesterday he mentioned he wanted to try it someday, I simply said "ill have it for a while, just let me know"
I kinda hope he does some research on his own, thats kinda why I never offered it, just let it be known that the option exists.

if it does happen I think ill work up the dosage to let him get a feel, he used to do lots of liquid lsd and is no novice, but dmt is imo something more than just psychedelic.

Smoking dmt and Passion flower joints while out in nature is probably one of my favorite things to do. I'll normally roll up about 100mg with some Passion flower.

I got several of my friends to try it out for their first time like this. Just take one hit at first see what it does to you. If you like it smoke some more in an hour or so maybe try taking more hits if you feel up to it.

Just make sure if you're bringing any other joints with you that you mark the ones with dmt in them.