For myself personally, I've realized I only end up gasping for air if I become aware of the fact "I'm" not breathing while in the experience. I could go the whole time and never experience the sensation of breathing and it won't bother me. But if I do suddenly, for whatever reason, become aware of the absence of the feeling and think "that's a thing I
should be doing", I'll gasp. But from what I'm told I only make a small noise or take a deeper breath and that typically, my breathing is very steady.
Divine gift does not come from a higher power, but from our own minds.