Adding more water and lye helped when I had a similar problem. I also took my home-made magnetic stirrer and set the magnet off to one side, in affect making an off-balanced spinner (a.k.a rumble pack, a.k.a vibrator, a.k.a massage wand), I then used this to gently tap the glass repeatedly, which seemed to help make it separate faster.
“Surrender is inner acceptance of what is without any reservations. If you have lived long enough, you will know that things “go wrong” quite often. It is precisely at those times that surrender needs to be practiced if you want to eliminate pain and sorrow from your life.”
Eckhart Tolle