Several occasions vaping DMT I have felt like it was all going to be too much. Feeling like I was coming out of my skin. Feeling like I was verge of exploding. Feeling like the experience was just going to destroy me.
I have had two things happen. When I let go and relax, the experience becomes something magical and beautiful! When I fought it and bought into this feeling of dying or being destroyed or just simply overwhelmed, it became something of a negative experience. Just waiting for it to be over.
It is hard to let go. I would say that it the greatest lesson DMT has taught me...let go!!! Just let it be... let yourself feel this overwhelming feeling and let it carry you to someplace trusting the process. It can feel like driving down the road at 120 mph and then closing my eyes and letting go of the wheel. I would think and feel that I will spin out of control and die!! No.. keep your hands on the wheel.. keep driving... keep control. The times I have attempted to maintain control I would lose control and get lost in my own fears.
Well... takes courage to close your eyes and let go of the wheel. When I have let go in this way I found myself wondering why I was worried to begin with. Something else comes in and surrounds me with reassurance and love. I don't know what IT is... all I know is that is has the wheel. The wheel I imagined in front of me was a false sense of control.
Past a certain point with DMT you will have no choice but to let go of the wheel. It will takes you where it wants. At a certain point, I simply disappear and forget who I am, forget what a car is, forget what a wheel is, forget what control means.. all is gone and somehow I am still aware. In this space I feel I know everything in the universe is deeply connected. That feeling of love and energy of the universe is amazing!
You certainly are not alone in the feelings you are having. I have read quite a few trip reports over the years the echo what you have presented here. I can relate to what you have said. Just relax and let go is all I can say. Smoalk moar!
"In the universe there is an immeasurable, indescribable force which shamans call intent, and absolutely everything that exists in the entire cosmos is attached to intent by a connecting link." ~Carlos Castaneda